Ugh! I love talking about us! Haha! Not to sound all corny and cheesy or preach to everyone, but love is so real! And I have so much love for my hubby! I mean, I would hope right? We met February 2017. Yes we met, got married, and had a baby in less than a year from when we met,
and you can all say what you want about that. Most people think it’s crazy, which I would 100% agree with. But, it’s not like that was ever the plan, it’s just what the plan changed to! It started with Jose doing the classic millennial thing and sliding in my dms on instagram after I liked one of his pictures. I just got home from working truck shift at ulta (sad because I loved that job!) and it was probably around midnight, so of course I was zonked almost right after my nightly social media scrolling. So when I woke up to the message I almost disregarded it because i thought it was someone else (there was a creepy jose that used to always message me asking for my Snapchat like once a day). Then I realized it was Jose! Like the Jose that my sister went to school with who I always thought was the hottest guy ever, no exaggeration.
I made sure to think through every message before I sent it and of course not to reply too fast, couldn’t seem TOO interested. Most girls know what I’m talking about. A few days later he ended up asking me to grab some food at the ever so fancy, Steak and Shake. Which I’m totally not knocking because they have my favorite fries and milkshakes. But he asked me so last minute and I was at the gym! Vomit. I had such a fan girl crush on him I couldn’t say no! So I went. After the gym. In the same clothes. Without a shower. I know, I disgust myself just thinking about it to this day. I have no idea why he even wanted a second date. But besides me being grossly self-conscious, the date was amazing, we talked the whole time nonstop with no weird moments and I couldn't find one thing I didn’t like about him, and that’s saying a lot. Ask anyone who knows me, I’m ashamed to say I was a serial dater before Jose. I am the pickiest person there is, even the smallest things about a person would make me stop talking to them after one date. Anyways! We spent almost every day together, even if it was just for a short time. I would go over to his house after I got off work even if it was just for an hour, he would stop over in between the two jobs he had at the time (once he stopped by for 5 minutes before class just to say hi, grab a snack, kiss me and then leave). When I tell you it was love at first DM, it really was! A few days after our first date I asked him what our relationship was to him, I didn’t want to tell people we were “talking” (exclusive) if he thought we were only “dating” (not exclusive). When I asked him he said I was his girlfriend, mind you we met 4 days before... but he didn’t seem like a psycho killer and I thought, and still think, he’s the hottest guy ever, so hey, why not! Okay maybe this story is crazy because both of us are crazy. Things moved fast and I still can’t believe I’m his wife and a mom now! But I can’t even remember what life was like before this, and I love it. That was the start of our crazy relationship, and of course there’s more to tell but, until next time!